Tables Have Turned

Hey, hey, people! :D So sorry haven’t updated in a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time. Just got caught up with life. Any who, now you people can read, right (no freaking duh!)? Yea, so the ‘tables have turned’ brings many definitions. It could be literally, like when someone is mad and does this,

…or just a figure of speech. I’m not doing the literal meaning. Anyway, this post is kinda personal but it’s filled with honesty (that was what my Mood Sense app said on my iPod today, jokes aside). This incident really benefitted me. It was heck affective. Seriously. It started off when I heard a saying, ‘Treat your foes/enemies and friends all equal.’ And I was just like, 

…yea. But then after what happened, I was just like,

So, there was this girl, I shall call her A (I’m concealing their identities to save their faces) and another girl called B. So, the equation is A + B = Friends. They knew each other since they were about 11, but weren’t in a same school. Finally, when they turned 13, they apparently enrolled in the same school (coincidence? I don’t think so, doubt it, nah). Anyway, at first both of them were like,

…and then halfway through the year, things got bad. Girl B started spreading rumors and talking bad and making up stories about Girl A. And Girl A didn’t do anything. No one knows why Girl B did that but some people added in their own opinions and factors, like jealously. And Girl A was just like,

"Wut?"

Then things got worse. Situations became awkward. Girl A was losing her closest friends. And whenever she hung out with them at lunch or break, she was just like,

…and her friends will just look at her and be all like,

…and,

…and also like,

So, basically, things got very sad. Girl A got VERY lonely. And finally, she silently blew up (no kidding, it happened). She complained to her teacher after a heart-stabbing incident by her closest friends. Her teacher told her to stay cool and all and so did her parents and blah, blah and she really couldn’t stand that convo anymore. She was just like,

…and was constantly forever alone.

Nevertheless, a new year came! She met an old friend from another class and they sat together and BOOM! They became best friends :D THE END!

Nah, I’m kidding. She still had problems. And unfortunately, her best friend was affected. But her best friend (Girl 786451685646485464) didn’t mind at all. Her best friend was amazingly supporting and patient. Girl A was lucky to have her. Then finally, the tables turned FIGURATIVELY even though occasionally Girl A wanted to literally flip the tables on Girl B and her traitorous friends and then walk away.

So, to cut the story short. Girl A is now having her time of a life. She got back her friends but is still best friends with Girl 786451685646485464, mind you. And everyone isolated Girl B and so did Girl A but then Girl A began to sympathise Girl B. And that’s when the saying hit her – like getting slam dunked!

So, Girl A decided to stop since she didn’t like to be treated like that. Now they’re still friends but there’s an advisable limit. So, people out there, just chill out. Things will turn out fine if you just learn to keep under the radar and well, listen. And learn to accept it, drop it and move on. That’s kind of my quotation. And like I mentioned earlier, I really benefitted. So, give it a try :) Thanks. ~Nelly  

Random Fact: People eat up to about 8 spiders a year while sleeping.